Kelechi Udoagwu

Every week, I turn over a new leaf. I make new resolutions, write down new-old ideas, make plans, and set out hopefully. Every week, I convince myself that even though I tried and failed the week before, maybe I’ll achieve this time, maybe I’ll persevere, maybe the Holy Spirit will fill in the gaps for…

We distract ourselves so much that we never have to spend time with our thoughts. There’s social media, tv series, youtube videos, music and earphones, friends, jobs, events, etc. I bet there’s more than half of the world’s population who have never in recent years, had a moment of true silence – just them and…

To become who we want to be, time spent day-dreaming is actually useful, and time spent imagining negative outcomes should be minimized to zero. Our subconscious minds have no sense of humor, play no jokes and cannot tell the difference between reality and an imagined thought. What we continually think about will eventually manifest in…

Driving around aimlessly at night is one of my favorite things to do. Lucky me, I spent the last two nights in Lagos doing just that with friends. Nights shows you the true colors of a city. Days are full of the stuff nobody wants to do but have to –– Ashwin Ravichadran

Novelist Philip Roth: You get them [people] wrong before you meet them: you get them wrong while you’re with them and then you get home to tell somebody else about the meeting and you get them all wrong again. Since the same generally goes for them with you, the whole thing is really a dazzling…

I spent last weekend at the beach with some friends from work. It was a much needed break to unwind from the pressures of being adult, being human. Take as many breaks as you need to cope w life and adulting. But hey, come back from those breaks and participate 100%, when you're strong. —…

This evening while at the salon, I stumbled on the answer to my questions from this morning. They came wrapped in a James Clear post sent to my inbox. I subscribe to newsletters in the heat of the moment and never read them, but this evening sitting at the salon, I had nothing to do but scroll…

It’s been an interesting journey for me to come to realise that happiness has nothing to do with what’s going on in my life. Well, of course, it kind of does – it’s hard to be happy if you just lost a friend or a good job but truly if I’ve learnt anything, it’s that…

I’m a woman of faith chasing perfection and living fully in every moment. I’m crazy impulsive, so that leads me to make mistakes often, but it also leads me to new experiences, wonderful people, and a sense of fulfillment. While I walk this earth, I want to be a force of positive change to young…